1.) Black on white homicide rate is more than twice as high as the white on black homicide rate
2.) 90% of black homicide victims are killed by other blacks
3.) Any given black and white man are about equally likely to kill a white man while any given black men is about 74 times more likely than any given white man to kill a black man (read that twice if you don't get it the first time)
4.) 50% of black children are raised only by a mother compared to less than 20% of white children
5.) 70% of black children are born out of wedlock compared to less than 30% of white children
6.) Over 30% of blacks have received food stamps at some point in their lives compared to 15% of whites
7.) Black men are far more likely commit a rape than white men, on average
8.) While it's hard to find exact numbers on interracial rape, all the evidence suggests that interracial rape is overwhelmingly black on white with white on black rape being extremely rare
9.) A black college applicant to an elite institution with the same GPA and standardized test scores as a white applicant is five times more likely to get in
10.) Simply being black when applying to college is a bigger privilege than being a legacy or being a student athlete
11.) The average black IQ is 85 compared to the average white IQ of 100
12.) Scientific evidence suggests that the black white IQ gap has a significant genetic component
13.) Despite only being about 12% of the population, blacks commit over half the robberies and murders in most years
14.) Even among hate crimes, any given black is more likely than a white to commit a hate crime, with over 20% of hate crimes being committed by blacks despite being only around 12% of the population
15.) Black men are far more likely to commit domestic abuse than white men are
16.) There is strong evidence that a genetic factor contributes to black men's greater likelihood of being violent
17.) For those who are big into pro LGBT stuff, less than 40% of black people support gay marriage compared to almost 60% of white people
18.) Most surveys find that black people are more likely to be creationists than white people
The list could go on. This is what an honest conversation on race would look like. Sure, it may include slavery (which white people abolished in western nations far before black people in african nations) and Jim Crow. It may include alleged injustices in the legal system (note the word alleged). But, in the end, we have to deal with the fact that, for modern America, white people likely have more reason to be pissed at blacks than vice versa.
If that were not the case, it would not be considered offensive and hateful to mention these facts in public. If this were not the case, it would not be considered okay (as it is) to make up lies and statistics to try to demonize white people and dredge up anti white hate.
PS: I didn't feel like posting links for all these statistics. They're mostly pretty easy to find on google. If anyone can't verify a certain claim on here, I'll gladly post a link (or explain).